Nollywood Actress 'Tonto Dike's wise words as seen on her Instagram

Tonto Dike is kinda smart, when she tunes her madam attitude down a bit.  I read this on LIB and i decided to post it here.Wise wise words and very deep... It's hard being in the spotlight and at the same time being human,living and existing. 

Read her post after the cut...

Catch flights don't catch feelings?So tell me,what is your reason for being?  The purpose of your existence? The same reasons why many of us are here in the first place...I don't mean to kill the BOSS attitudes,but I work with bosses all the time.  The people who prioritised work over relationships aren't happy with their Lives.  You have to be able to find a balance,Yes www all have an economic reality,But No,money can't love you.  Be happy at every opportunity,never repress your love for the sake of trying to make enough money" What is enough? Can you feed your self?  Do you have a bed to sleep in at night?  Yet you want a bigger bed,Forgetting that you could be looking for some1 to share it with. Dont miss out on a family just for money... Don't turn into a bitter and cynical person because you were in love once &  it didn't work out.. Yes you invest emotional energy into your partner,but you will always have more energy.... You have a lot of Love to Give.  Energy can't be destroyed so you can't say it was wasted.  Your partner cheated on you... Doesn't mean all humans are cheats.  My ex was a cheat,A prolific internet whore and a FAKE but that didn't stop me from loving even harder the next time..... You have to be in it to win it.  Building breakable barriers will leave you lonely.  Loneliness would leave you SAD If you don't allow people to get close to you then yes you might not hurt,but you will never FEEL. Feelings are just VISITORS,Let them Come and Go.  So catch feelings and flights,but don't forget LOVE,because that is what all humans need.  Don't let modern trends change your mindset in CYNICAL ways... Leaving a life without Love,is not Living at all.LET LOVE REIN😍😍😍 #POKOBARS#

A photo posted by Mrs Tonto w.c. Dikeh D* (@tontolet) on Aug 7, 2015 at 8:26pm PDT