What to DIY at your weddings and to leave to the pros

So if your just joining us , we have been on a particular topic the past few days. Go through my previous posts and read up. Hope your up to speed now? So welcome! Here's another aspect of your event that you should leave to the professionals... 

 Leave to the professionals;

Food; I've notice one thing about the weddings I attend and it's the rate at which people complain about the food. Like a wedding I attended a few months ago we couldn't stop complaining about the food. It was crap and u know how most of us go to weddings on an stomach with hopes that we'll eat there and end up getting disappointed? Cos of the crappy food they served. Most of this mistakes happen cos of maybe the brides mom and her many recommendations. Her meeting women can cook the food and blah blah blah

  People love to rave about a good meal, and love to complain about a bad one. So while asking your mom to cook that your favorite meal or considering making part or all of the meal yourself might seem like a way to make things personal and save some money, the food is really best left to a caterer. A caterer will know what sorts of foods are appropriate for which events, what time to serve different  courses, how to combine you and your partner's different tastes , how to accommodate guests with dietary needs or restrictions , and how to cook on a large scale for an event with many guests. Take some time to sample different caterers, foods, peruse their menus and package offerings, and seek out reviews from your friends, relatives etc. Dont get me wrong it's ok if you want to do the cooking yourself but it's a lot of work and having your relatives do it isn't a good idea either. It's better u hire a caterer that does the cooking thing as a job because they are more experienced and all about customer service. You find that whenever relatives do the cooking at an event they are not professionals , they end up disturbing the brides friends to help them serve food, they usually arrive late, they also hoard the food. Hiring a pro is the best way to go they come with waiters and waitresses, they don't add any sentiment while working. 

 Please note as a bride to be after you engaged thefirst thing to do is call your family and give them the great news that's if they weren't at the venue of the proposal and second thing to do is make a list. A list of everything and anything u want at your wedding. From wedding themes, season, your dress, bridal train, colors of the day, venues you will like to use etc. call up an event planner as well. Because whether you like it or not ,you can't do it all by yourself or else your a wedding planner.

Talk soon xoxo 

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